Parent Talk:
Travels with Young Children
Thanksgiving and Christmas travels can be stressful but planning makes a difference
During a recent cross country trip I had the opportunity to observe some children and families. Airports are particularly challenging to little ones and parents: crowds, hurrying/waiting, anticipation and hauling “the stuff “children require. Number of children to parents, ages, strength, calmness and distances really count! The reasons for travel, family emergency or vacation, also impact parents and children.

I saw a mom who was relaxed and skilled with her 3 kids. She was feeding the 9 month old, talking with the 2 year old who was “doing tricks” on the waiting room seats and the 4 year old who was between looking at a book and teasing the 2 year old. She had some clear limits and a quick laugh. The full evening flight between Chicago and Denver had a couple of parents near the galley, calmly doing the standing jiggle-sway with babies, close comforting, kisses and pats to coax sleep. There was also a tiny baby who cried for most of an hour with a harried young mother surrounded by unsympathetic people.
Travel is yet another time when it is important to know your child, to be “tuned-in” to how they react to newness and change. Several temperament traits (those “hard wired” personal traits) in the child and parent come into play when traveling:
-Activity level, how much need to wiggle and move
-Adaptability: how easily can s/he change schedules and routines (sleep, food
newness)
-Approach/Withdrawal: reaction to new people, places, activities
-Intensity of Reaction: how strong or mild are positive and negative reactions (big
laughs/crying to mild fussing)
Parents who understand their child’s temperament are ready to offer the emotional supports which make traveling and newness easier to handle and more enjoyable.
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Report: Five US children die every day from abuse
CDAPress.com Posted: Tuesday, Oct 20, 2009 - 11:27:40 pm PDT
By ALECIA WARREN
Staff writer

SHAWN GUST/Press
Shannon Cervenka, who was abused as a child, credits ICARE for helping teach her important parenting skills that benefit both her and 4-year-old daughter Julia Melvin.
ICARE classes teach proper parenting skills
Raising a little girl was a mystery to Shannon Cervenka.
Even at 4 years old, Julia was different than the boys Shannon had brought up before, with tantrums and attitude the mother couldn't control.
"I was like, 'How do I deal with her talking back to me? My boys never talked back to me,'" said Shannon, who was already struggling to piece her life back together in transitional housing in Coeur d'Alene. "Her emotions, her anger -- I thought, 'This is killing me.'"
All she knew was that she didn't want to
beat her daughter the way Shannon had been
by her own parents.
"I didn't know how to discipline her,"
Shannon said. "I knew my parents were wrong,
and I wanted to do it the right way."
And after learning proper parenting skills
through the ICARE children and advocacy
center, she could declare this week: "I've
never beat my daughter."
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